And what really happens when they do The stories below are fictionalized, based on real coaching experiences — any identifying details have been changed to ensure privacy and confidentiality. Maybe you’ve Googled “Am I addicted to porn?” or “Why can’t I stop watching?”Maybe you’re not even sure you want to stop — just that something feels off. You’re…
Understanding the difference between compulsive use and cultural fear-mongering You’ve probably Googled it. “Am I addicted to porn?”“Signs of porn addiction in men”“Why can’t I stop watching porn?” And if so, you’ve probably come across some shame-laced advice or over-simplified lists that make it sound like you’re either a “healthy man” or a “full-blown addict.” No in-between….
You’re Not Alone. But It Might Feel That Way. You used to have sex. Now you don’t. And no one talks about what that means. Whether you’re still in a committed relationship, married, or quietly wondering if something is wrong, the absence of sex often raises questions most people are too afraid to ask out…
You weren’t expecting it. Or maybe you were — deep down, in the parts you tried to ignore. Maybe it was a message on her phone. A shift in her energy. A look she used to give you, now given to someone else. And now you’re here. Trying to breathe. Trying not to feel like…
Introduction: The Affair You Didn’t Mean to Have You didn’t plan this. It started innocently enough. Maybe a late-night text thread, a flurry of DMs, or that co-worker who just gets you in a way your partner hasn’t in a long time. It’s not physical….not technically. But something’s different, and part of you wonders if you’ve crossed…
You didn’t plan for this. It can start innocently enough with a few messages. Some much needed interest or attention. A playful moment that spiraled. Maybe it happened just one time, bu you can’t stop thinking about it. You didn’t wake up that morning wanting to hurt anyone. But now, you’re here. In the middle…
At 3:17 AM, James searched: “my wife never wants sex.” Then, “is it wrong to want more?” Then, “how long can a marriage go without intimacy?” He stared at the screen, feeling ashamed, frustrated, and deeply alone. He didn’t want to cheat. He didn’t want to pressure her. He didn’t want to feel rejected every…
You typed in “Why do I finish so fast”—maybe in the middle of the night, alone, frustrated, and a little ashamed. Maybe you added “how to last longer in bed” or “premature ejaculation help” hoping for a miracle solution. If that’s you, you’re not broken. And you’re definitely not alone. According to the Mayo Clinic,…
Let’s start with something no one says often enough: Erectile dysfunction doesn’t mean you’re broken.It doesn’t mean you’re weak, unlovable, or any less of a man.It means something in your system is out of sync. That’s all. And that—if you’re willing to listen—is not a life sentence. It’s a signal. A nudge. A chance to…
📝 ED in Your 20s? You’re Not Alone—And You’re Not Failing No one expects this to happen in their 20s. You might expect that being in young adulthood means being in your sexual “prime”. So when your body doesn’t respond the way you hoped—or at all—it can feel confusing, embarrassing, even terrifying. But here’s the…
