It’s Not Addiction—But It’s Not Nothing Either: When Porn Becomes the Place You Go to Cope

It’s Not Addiction—But It’s Not Nothing Either: When Porn Becomes the Place You Go to Cope

You’re not broken. But if it’s starting to feel like too much, there’s a better way through. He’s not even sure what he’s looking for anymore. It’s 1:42 AM. The porn tabs blur into one another. He’s not aroused, not really. Not ashamed yet, but it’s coming. And behind it all, a question he doesn’t…

Myths About Porn Addiction: What You’ve Heard vs. What’s Real

Myths About Porn Addiction: What You’ve Heard vs. What’s Real

So you’ve been Googling: And you’ve probably come across some strong opinions, scary headlines, and rigid “solutions.” We’re here to set the record straight — with nuance, evidence, and a whole lot more compassion than you’ll find in most corners of the internet. This isn’t about minimizing your experience. If you’re concerned about your porn…

Why More Men Are Choosing Coaching

Why More Men Are Choosing Coaching

And what really happens when they do The stories below are fictionalized, based on real coaching experiences — any identifying details have been changed to ensure privacy and confidentiality. Maybe you’ve Googled “Am I addicted to porn?” or “Why can’t I stop watching?”Maybe you’re not even sure you want to stop — just that something feels off. You’re…

Signs and Symptoms of Porn Addiction: What It Really Looks Like

Signs and Symptoms of Porn Addiction: What It Really Looks Like

Understanding the difference between compulsive use and cultural fear-mongering You’ve probably Googled it. “Am I addicted to porn?”“Signs of porn addiction in men”“Why can’t I stop watching porn?” And if so, you’ve probably come across some shame-laced advice or over-simplified lists that make it sound like you’re either a “healthy man” or a “full-blown addict.” No in-between….