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When You Want It More (Or Less): The Truth About Mismatched Libidos

ByBrendan

Originally published on Medium You want more sex than your partner. Or they want more than you. Either way, you’re not meeting in the middle — and it’s starting to show. At first, it’s subtle. A shift in energy. A missed cue. One of you reaching, while the other retreats. You tell yourself it’s temporary….

Mismatched Libido in Relationships: How to Talk About It With Compassion
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Mismatched Libido in Relationships: How to Talk About It With Compassion

ByBrendan

At 3:17 AM, James searched: “my wife never wants sex.” Then, “is it wrong to want more?” Then, “how long can a marriage go without intimacy?” He stared at the screen, feeling ashamed, frustrated, and deeply alone. He didn’t want to cheat. He didn’t want to pressure her. He didn’t want to feel rejected every…