MENS RELATIONSHIPS AND SEXUAL WELLNESS

Private Coaching for Men Who Can’t Talk About It Anywhere Else

This isn’t therapy.
It’s private, real coaching for men who need to talk about sex, relationships, and everything in between.

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No More Suffering in Silence. No More Mental Loops.

This space was built for men quietly struggling with sex, desire, or disconnection—
and for those who’ve spent too long trying to fix it all in their head.
You might be here because:

  • Your relationship feels stuck or sexless
  • You’re navigating desires you’ve never said out loud
  • You’re using porn or fantasy to cope—but it’s not working anymore
  • You feel distant from your body, your partner, or yourself

Whatever it is, it’s not too much.
You deserve clarity, connection, and support without judgment

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Real Men, Real Results

“Porn had been my go-to since I was a teenager. It felt impossible to change. But this wasn’t about guilt or stopping cold turkey—it was about understanding myself.”.
J.S. – Boston, Ma.
“I was scared to say what I was into. I thought I’d be judged. Brendan just got it. No shame, no pressure—just real talk and a path forward.”
T.H. – Seattle, Wa.
“I thought I had to choose between suppressing everything or blowing up my life. Brendan helped me see other paths. Coaching gave me back control.”.
J.F. – Vancouver, BC
“I couldn’t talk to my friends, my wife, or my therapist about what was really going on. This space felt safer than anything else I’d tried.”
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Ready to feel better? It starts with your free consult

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You will receive your booking link within one business day, though in many cases in just a few hours

Not a Platform. A Coach Who Gets It.

You’re not signing up for an app or a faceless service. You’re working with me—Brendan.


Over the past decade, I’ve helped hundreds of men untangle their relationships with sex, porn, intimacy, and identity. I created Stratus Vir because I saw how many men were silently struggling—and how few places actually felt safe to talk about it.

I’m a certified coach, with advanced study in men’s sexual wellness, intimacy, and emotional intelligence. But what matters more is this:
I know how to listen without flinching.
I know how to challenge without shaming.
And I know how to help you get unstuck—for real.

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You’ve Thought About This Long Enough.

You don’t need to figure it all out before reaching out.
You just need to take the next step.
This is private, personal coaching—no pressure, no sales pitch, just a chance to talk with someone who actually gets it. You’ll stay in control the entire time.
✅ 100% confidential
✅ No judgment, no moralizing
✅ Free initial consult
✅ Online booking—on your schedule
✅ Less expensive than therapy, more action-oriented
✅ Designed for men like you
You’ve already taken the hardest step by making it this far.
Now let’s talk.

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