New research shows that solo sex isn’t just compensation—it’s a stable, regular occurence that part of many people’s sexual lives, shaped by fantasy, rhythm, and internal cues more than relationship status. What If Masturbation Wasn’t About What’s Missing? For years, the dominant narrative has gone something like this: if you’re masturbating a lot, something must…
Introduction: The Affair You Didn’t Mean to Have You didn’t plan this. It started innocently enough. Maybe a late-night text thread, a flurry of DMs, or that co-worker who just gets you in a way your partner hasn’t in a long time. It’s not physical….not technically. But something’s different, and part of you wonders if you’ve crossed…
You’re finally free. The court dates, the paperwork, the hard conversations—they’re done. Supposedly, you’re ready to “move on.” And yet, you might feel anxious. Or unsure. Or like your body is lagging behind your intentions. Perhaps you want sex again—badly. Perhaps the idea of touching someone feels impossible. You might be somewhere in between: curious,…
