Opening Up a Relationship: What Couples Really Learn When They Do Opening up a relationship is often framed as a sexual decision. But for most couples who explore non-monogamy, the real transformation isn’t about sex at all — it’s about communication, identity, and the courage to name what’s been unspoken for years. Some arrive at…
You’re not broken. But if it’s starting to feel like too much, there’s a better way through. He’s not even sure what he’s looking for anymore. It’s 1:42 AM. The porn tabs blur into one another. He’s not aroused, not really. Not ashamed yet, but it’s coming. And behind it all, a question he doesn’t…
A new study reveals kink isn’t just about behavior—it’s shaped by your desires, your identity, and how openly you relate to this part of yourself. Kink Is More Common Than You Might Think For something so often whispered about, kink is surprisingly widespread. New research reveals that over half of all people—53% of men and…
New research shows that solo sex isn’t just compensation—it’s a stable, regular occurence that part of many people’s sexual lives, shaped by fantasy, rhythm, and internal cues more than relationship status. What If Masturbation Wasn’t About What’s Missing? For years, the dominant narrative has gone something like this: if you’re masturbating a lot, something must…
This is a longer version of an article posted on Medium Introduction: Breaking the Taboo Let’s be honest, it’s a topic of high curiosity but one men are reluctant to talk about. Male anal pleasure remains one of the most misunderstood and taboo topics in sexuality. Wrapped in outdated stereotypes, shame, and silence, it’s often…
Sexuality is personal. Deeply so.It shapes how we relate, how we desire, how we feel at home in ourselves…and sometimes not. And yet for many people, sexuality is also a source of confusion, pressure, or silence.Especially if the version of attraction we feel doesn’t match what we were taught to expect. Regardless of political winds,…
Originally published on Medium You want more sex than your partner. Or they want more than you. Either way, you’re not meeting in the middle — and it’s starting to show. At first, it’s subtle. A shift in energy. A missed cue. One of you reaching, while the other retreats. You tell yourself it’s temporary….
Why You Can Finish Alone, But Not With Someone You Love It’s Not That You’re Not Into It You’re present. You’re hard. You’re in it to win it.But for some reason, you can’t finish. Partnered sex goes on and on — not in a brag-worthy way, but in a frustrating, confusing one.You can climax on…
Let’s Start With the Name Death grip syndrome.It sounds like something out of a comic book or a mid-2000s metal band, not something you’d expect to see in a serious conversation about men’s sexual health. But behind the dramatic name is something surprisingly common: the experience of being able to get there when you are…
So you’ve been Googling: And you’ve probably come across some strong opinions, scary headlines, and rigid “solutions.” We’re here to set the record straight — with nuance, evidence, and a whole lot more compassion than you’ll find in most corners of the internet. This isn’t about minimizing your experience. If you’re concerned about your porn…
