“This is the space I wish I had found years ago”

This isn’t just coaching. It’s a judgment-free zone where men finally feel seen—and supported.

My Philosophy (connection + clarity).

Men need spaces where it’s okay to not know the answers, to share what is personal without feeling judged or shamed. That was my goal in creating Stratus Vir.

I believe in helping men build better tools, so they can feel alive, connected, and in control again.

You deserve pleasure and wellness in your life and I want to walk side by side to help remove the barriers that get in the way.

My Credentials

Certified Coach

Certified and accredited as a Life Coach and NLP Master Practitioner .

Training in Relationships and Embodied Intimacy

Additional training in relationships, sexual wellness and issues, as well as a certificate in somatic trauma therapy

Experience with diverse men around the world

I’ve helped hundreds of men in matters related to sexual health, desires, relationships, erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation and problematic porn use.

Zero Judgements, Just Help.

LGBTQ+ inclusive, kink friendly, non-monogamy aware, trauma informed.

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Was The Solution I Needed

“I’m great at solving things—except this. I didn’t want a 12-step group or a Reddit thread. This was the first time I talked to someone who got it and didn’t flinch.”

D.K.

Seattle, WA

Comfortable and Supportive

“I never thought I’d be talking to another guy about my sex life. But this didn’t feel awkward or preachy. It felt honest. I wish I’d done this a year ago.”

J.S.

Toronto, ON

Helped Me Break Through Where I Needed To

“I thought something was wrong with me. I’d quit for a week, then fall back in. Turns out I wasn’t broken—I was using porn to avoid everything else. Coaching gave me a way out.”

M.R.

Dubai, UAE

Real Action and Real Results

“I’ve tried therapy before. This felt different—less about analyzing the past and more about what I could do today. I’m back in my body again. That’s huge.”

E.L.

For Lauderdale, FL

A Space to Finally Be Honest

“There’s a kind of freedom when you stop lying to yourself. I wasn’t sure this was for someone like me. But it was. And it helped.”

A.F.

New York, NY

A Huge Relief

“Experiencing both ED and PE and being under 35 I felt totally alone and ashamed. Brendan helped me work it through one piece at a time and I am so glad he did. I can finally relax and enjoy dating again.

I.R.

Aurora, CO

Why Now? Why Coaching?

Don’t let passive curiosity lead to inaction.

You’ve been researching for a reason.
Coaching is confidential, action-oriented, and focused on real change.
No waitlists, no insurance, no weekly therapy bills.
You’ll walk away with clarity, tools, and a strategy—often after just one session.
I work with men at all stages of reflection—whether you're still figuring it out or ready to dive in.

→ This isn’t forever. It’s for right now—so you can get momentum and finally move forward.

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